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How a leader can take their fears and beliefs out of the picture when dealing with employee performance.

Ive never fired anyone before
How a leader’s beliefs can get in the way
2 Apr 2007

 

Ever had that discussion with someone that shares a problem their experiencing, and as they describe the situation your wondering why they haven’t taken action?
 
From your view the solution is obvious, yet they seem unable to have the same view or conclusion.
 
In a recent conversation with a small yet growing business owner, there was that same experience. Ultimately the conversations lead to some awareness on his part as to how his beliefs were getting in the way of his business growth and performance.
 
Here is a recap of the conversation….
 
“Hey Bill (not his real name) glad we could get together for lunch. What has been happening with you?” I ask.
 
“Oh man, it’s been unreal. I didn’t sleep last night and I’ve been up since midnight going at it.” is the reply.
 
“Really, what are the issues on your mind?” was my question.
 
“I’ve got this guy that just drove me crazy yesterday and kept me up all night. We had a problem in the plant and I’m positive it was his error, but he denies any knowledge of it. He always has this way of covering his butt and it’s getting to me.” Bill responded.
 
“Ok, tell me more about this guy and what he does and doesn’t do.” was my next question.
 
To shorten the dialogue here is the litany Bill gave me:
  • He has “bad mouthed” our company to customers
  • Disagrees with my directions on what to do.
  • In a round about way shows disrespect for me and the other employees.
  • He is very manipulative with the crew and me.
  • He has the ability to push Bill’s buttons and get into his head in negative ways.
  • He is not meeting our expectations on job performance.
  • He seems to undermine our authority on a regular basis.
 
Has this suddenly gotten very obvious to you? Just hold on!
 
“So what does he do that causes you to keep him on board?” was the follow up.
 
“Well he has been with us the longest, has the technical skills we need and does some of the specialized projects that come in.” was Bill’s response.
 
“Ok Bill, I want you to back away from this and imagine you’re not involved here. You’re talking to another business owner and he has just related this same situation to you. What would you be telling him based on this information?” as I turned my writing pad around and pointed to the two lists.
 
Bill paused as he looked at the lists and took that third party look.
 
“I would have to ask why the guy is still there?” was the response.
 
“So why is he still there?” was my question back to Bill.
 
“I’ve never had to fire anyone before, and I think with the changes we’ve made in his position we can get him to change. He has value and after all he has been with us for the startup.” was Bill’s justification.
 
“Ok Bill, I’m going to be blunt here. As I see it, your choices going forward are:
  1. You continue as is and put up with the same behaviors and you’re not sleeping
  2. You outright fire the guy and get on with life.
  3. You create tools and a new cultural direction that take the choice off you and puts it on your employees. That is the employees make the choice if they wish to change and meet the standards you and they set or they leave because they are not willing to work with in the standards and new culture direction.
Which would you prefer?” in response to his justification.
 
“Tell me about the third one, you said they make the choice instead of me?”
 
“That’s right. You see many business people tend to not set standards for employees and as a result the employee has to be dependant upon the owner or manager to direct them. This puts all the pressure on the owner/manager to be responsible for performance.”
 
“On the other hand, if you and the employee agree on set standards of expectation and performance. Then the responsibility of measurement, accountability and choice is put back on the employee. They know if the expectancies are being met and whether they want to work in a culture that holds them accountable.”
 
“By setting standards with this guy and getting his agreement, he then takes the responsibility for meeting those standards. It’s now his choice if he wants to change his behavior or not. If his behavior prevents him from meeting the agreed standards, then he has chosen the path, not you.” is my explanation.
 
“Ok, so I come up with standards for everything I expect him to do and get his agreement to them. So then we simply track the measurements to see if he is on track or not. If he is consistently off track we have a reason to hold him accountable for performance, not just behavior?” Bill asks.
 
“That’s right Bill, and now do you see how your personal beliefs are no longer in the way of the employee’s choice?”
 
“I think so, because it is not so much my choice anymore, the standards direct the choice rather than my beliefs, fears or feelings. The pressure seems to already be coming off.” Bill remarked.
 
“Now a couple of other things that come from this as well are, systems and ways to measure performance that you may not be using. These could help everyone in the plant. You also allow more freedom to the employee to solve problems and use their talents more effectively. In addition the employee can get a feeling of belonging or ownership when they are give standards to focus on along with the freedom to perform.”
 
“Then there is the ability to direct behavior with standards as well.” I added, “If you want a certain type of behavior from someone, say more team building, you can write the standard in a way that requires the employee to alter their current behavior in order to achieve the standard.”
 
“An example might go like this: Team building will have been met when the team members have met each day for a minimum of 10 minutes to discover the talents and abilities of each team member. This information has then been discussed by the team and determined how best to maximize each member’s talents to met or exceed the expected standards.”
 
“Ok”, asks Bill, “how does this affect this guy’s behavior?”
 
“As I see it, he is not a team player and pulls people down. If he is required to perform in an alternate fashion, look at their strengths, does he now have to choose to change his behavior or change his position? Also are you directly challenging his behavior or are you making the issue “team building” instead? Is this an indirect way of affecting his behavior?” was my response.
 
“You’re right, this should cause him to choose one way or the other and again it is not my choice, it’s his!” exclaimed Bill.
 
Bill went on, “So now he chooses to either change as needed to meet the standards or he ends up leaving because he can not do the job. But that is his choice, I just need to make sure he has the tools and support, the rest is up to him! This is almost too easy!”
 
“Well there is plenty of planning, thinking and discussion to get this all implemented, but if you have a clear picture now of what you need to start doing, you’re on the way.”
 
From here Bill and I set up time to help him work through the various positions and establish standards for each position.
 
Bill is relived, because he still may not have to ever fire anyone! They may choose to leave because they are unwilling or unable to meet the standards agreed to. Now Bill’s beliefs are about accountability not personalities.
 
This story sounding familiar to you? If so give us a call or drop a line and see what we can do for your organization and sleep habits.
 
Till next week, you make it a great day as only you can!
Harlan Goerger
National Training Director
© Harlan Goerger, April 07

 

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